grass is greener

Perceived better elsewhere

The grass is greener refers to the tendency to believe that other circumstances—someone else's life, a different job, another relationship—are better than one's own.

The full expression is "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence," suggesting that what we don't have looks more appealing than what we do: I thought moving would fix everything, but it turns out the grass isn't always greener.

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next door · fence · compare · other side · pastures · other · side · wanting · discontent · yearning · covet · wandering eye · wistful · somewhere · else · what if · better · illusion

Categories
Opposites
contentment vs. envy

grass is greenercontentment

Peaceful satisfaction with circumstances

count your blessings · gratitude · satisfaction · enough is enough · grateful

perception of alternatives

grass is greenerhome sweet home

Phrase celebrating one's dwelling

realism · clear-eyed · pragmatism

realistic vs idealized perception

grass is greenerreality check

Confrontation with actual circumstances

disillusionment · warts and all

Family

grass, grasses, grassy, grassland, grasslands, green, greens, greener, greenest

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G