pick a fight

Deliberately cause conflict

To pick a fight is to deliberately provoke a confrontation or argument, often with someone who wasn't looking for trouble: He walked into the bar looking to pick a fight.

The phrase implies the aggressor is choosing conflict unnecessarily, selecting a target rather than responding to genuine provocation.

Stop picking fights with your sister.

Related

argument · goad · dispute · provoke · incite · instigate · scuffle · come to blows · confrontation · agitate · talking trash · throw down · throw hands · square up · provocation · have words · needle · stir the pot

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Opposites
conflict initiation

pick a fightmake peace

Resolve conflict between parties

bury the hatchet · peacemaking · mend fences · make amends · patch things up

social disposition

pick a fightmake friends

Establish companionship with others

build bridges · reach out · play nice · get along · befriend

aggression vs. conciliation

pick a fightkeep the peace

Prevent discord or conflict

back down · stand down · walk away · appease · conciliate

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG