giving the finger

Rude hand signal

Giving the finger is an obscene gesture made by extending the middle finger while curling the others into a fist, directed at someone as an expression of contempt, anger, or dismissal.

The gesture substitutes for saying "fuck you" without words: Some guy cut me off and I gave him the finger.

Also called flipping the bird or flipping off.

Related

taboo · frustration · contempt · road rage · aggressive driver · provocation · hostility · defiance · rebellion · body language · interpersonal conflict · resentment · irritation · societal norms · social stigma · indignation · signifier · visual metaphor

Opposites
gestural respect/contempt

giving the fingersaluting

Formal gesture of respect

applauding · blowing a kiss · bowing · curtseying · standing ovation

social reception

giving the fingeropen arms

Welcoming body language

beckoning · embrace · warm greeting · blowing kisses · air kiss

hostile vs. friendly gesture

giving the fingerwaving

Sweeping hand gesture

thumbs up · blowing a kiss · high five · handshake · peace sign

Family

give, gives, given, giver, giving, finger, fingers, fingered, fingering

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG-13