getting over oneself

Releasing self-importance finally

Getting over oneself means setting aside excessive self-importance, self-pity, or wounded pride.

The phrase usually appears as a command or exhortation to someone being dramatic or taking themselves too seriously: Get over yourself—nobody cares that much about your Instagram.

It suggests the target is inflating their own significance or dwelling on slights that don't merit the attention.

Related

owning up · being wrong · compromising · self-awareness · adapting · introspection · forgiveness · vulnerability · collaboration · team player · gratitude · letting go · moving on · open-mindedness · self-deprecation · acceptance · volunteering · perspective-taking

Opposites
ego and self-importance

getting over oneselfself-aggrandizing

Exalting one's own status

self-importance · egotism · narcissism · arrogance · conceit

emotional processing

getting over oneselfwallowing

Indulging without restraint

stewing · brooding · sulking · self-pity · ruminating

self-awareness and growth

getting over oneselfdoubling down

Strengthening a risky commitment

digging in one's heels

Family

gotten, getting, overs, oneself, selfhood, selfish, selfless

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G