get with the program

Start paying attention

Get with the program is an imperative urging someone to pay attention, adapt to current expectations, or start behaving appropriately.

It implies the person being addressed is out of step with what everyone else already understands or accepts.

The phrase carries mild exasperation: We've explained the new policy three times—get with the program.

It can also be self-directed when someone recognizes they need to catch up or focus.

conform

adapt

Modify for new conditions

follow along · shape up · toe the line · play ball · cooperate · align · synchronize · assimilate · integrate · acclimate

modernize

update

New version or information

advance · progress · move forward · get up to speed · catch up · adapt · embrace change · innovate · refresh · modernize

understand

catch on

Grasp or gain popularity

get it · wake up · wise up · clue in · figure out · see the light · come around · recognize · perceive · acknowledge

Opposites
conformity/compliance

get with the programrebel

Authority defier

resist · defy · go against the grain · dissent · rock the boat

competence/engagement

get with the programflounder

Struggle awkwardly, or seafood

loaf · slack off · zone out · space out · drag your feet

independence/autonomy

get with the programbreak the mold

Diverge from tradition

stand apart

Family

getting, program, programs, programmed, programming, programmer, programmers, programmatic

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Known to kids · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G