get one's wires crossed

Exchange conflicting information

To get one's wires crossed is to misunderstand or miscommunicate, especially when two people have different ideas about the same situation without realizing it.

The expression comes from telephone technology, where crossed wires could connect the wrong parties or garble transmissions.

We must have gotten our wires crossed—I thought we were meeting at noon, not two.

The phrase typically implies an innocent mix-up rather than deliberate deception.

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misunderstanding · miss the point · wrong end of the stick · mess · lost in translation · miscommunication · communication breakdown · scramble · short circuit · ambiguity · misinterpretation · knot · signal interference · tangle · misjudgment · lost the plot · blur · jumble

Opposites
communication clarity

get one's wires crossedspeak plainly

spell it out

mutual understanding

get one's wires crossedsee eye to eye

Agree completely on something

get the message · connect · click · get through to · comprehend

coordination and alignment

get one's wires crossedcoordinate

Arrange for unified action

have one's ducks in a row · mesh · click

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G