miss the point

Fail to grasp

To miss the point is to fail to understand the essential meaning or significance of something.

Someone who misses the point may grasp peripheral details while the central message goes over their head: You're focusing on his tone, but you're missing the point—he's right.

The phrase often carries mild exasperation at someone's failure to see what matters.

Related

unaware · mistake · irrelevance · neglect · misconstrue · miscalculate · off base · wide of the mark · miscommunication · misunderstand · obtuse · misalignment · disconnect · whoosh · fail · unheeding · oblivious · lost in translation

Opposites
comprehension

miss the pointget the point

Understand the meaning

understand · get it · comprehend · catch on · follow

relevance of response

miss the pointhit the nail on the head

To be exactly correct

cut to the chase · zero in on · hit the mark · nail it · see the forest for the trees

Family

miss, missed, missing, misses, point, points, pointed, pointing, pointer

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G