do you mind

Seeking your permission

Do you mind is a polite way to ask permission or make a request, literally asking whether someone would object: Do you mind if I open the window?

The expected answer is "no" (meaning no objection), which can cause confusion—"Do you mind?" "No, go ahead." The phrase also expresses irritation when someone's behavior is intrusive or rude: Do you mind? I'm trying to work here.

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just saying · frustrated · irony · conversation · indirectness · request · irritated · double meaning · passive-aggressiveness · dialogue · kindly · nuance · pardon me · inquiry · bothered · rhetorical question · implication · offended

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Opposites
directness of request

do you mindmake it happen

Cause something to occur

do it now · do it · no choice · obey · get it done

permission-seeking vs. permission-granting

do you mindgo ahead

Permission to begin

be my guest · feel free · by all means · help yourself · permission granted

concern for others vs. disregard

do you minddeal with it

Dismissive command to accept hardship

too bad · tough luck · like it or lump it · whatever · so what

Family

mind, did, done, doing, undone, minds, minded, minding, mindful

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G