discomfit

Make someone squirm

To discomfit is to unsettle, embarrass, or frustrate someone—to throw them off their game: The reporter's pointed questions clearly discomfited the senator.

The word originally meant to defeat utterly in battle, and traces of that stronger sense persist in formal usage.

Often confused with discomfort, which emphasizes physical or emotional unease rather than the active unsettling that discomfit implies.

embarrass

embarrass

Cause social discomfort

chagrin · fluster · discompose · shame · chasten · demean · humble · red-faced · blush · squirm

defeat

vanquish

Defeat thoroughly in conflict

foil · overcome · best · worst · trounce · outmaneuver · outwit · checkmate · confound · stymie

unsettle

unnerve

Disturb someone's composure

agitate · unsettle · dismay · alarm · trouble · distress · ruffle · shake · discompose · anxiety

confuse

baffle

Confuse or perplex

mystify · flummox · nonplus · befuddle · confound · stump · discombobulate · disorient · bemuse · dumbfound

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emotional state caused

discomfitcomfort

Ease or soothing relief

reassure · soothe · console · calm · ease

military/competitive outcome

discomfityield

Produce or relinquish

surrender · capitulate · submit · concede · succumb

facilitation vs. obstruction

discomfitassist

To give support

aid · help · facilitate · abet · smooth

Family

discomfiture, discomfited, discomfiting, discomfits, discomfitting

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G