discomfitting

Making someone uncomfortable

Discomfitting means causing unease, embarrassment, or frustration.

A discomfitting question catches you off guard; a discomfitting silence makes everyone uncomfortable.

The word comes from discomfit, which originally meant to defeat utterly in battle but now usually means to disconcert or thwart: The candidate's discomfitting performance in the debate worried her supporters.

embarrassing

awkward

Lacking grace or ease

mortifying · cringe · flustering · abashing · disconcerting · shamefaced · red-faced · squirming · blushing · chagrining

unsettling

unnerving

Causing loss of composure

disconcerting · rattling · disorienting · jarring · off-putting · troubling · destabilizing · unbalancing · shaking · discomposing

confounding

bewildering

Causing utter confusion

befuddling · puzzling · disorienting · confounding · mystifying · nonplussing · flummoxing · discombobulating · muddling · throwing

distressing

upsetting

Causing emotional turmoil

tense · agonizing · harrowing · painful · wrenching · gut-wrenching · nauseating · sickening · dreadful · awful

Opposites
emotional effect

discomfittingreassuring

Restoring calm or confidence

comforting · soothing · consoling · calming · heartening

social ease

discomfittingreassuring

Restoring calm or confidence

emboldening · confidence-building · encouraging · validating · affirming

reassurance

discomfittingreassuring

Restoring calm or confidence

affirming · validating · confidence-building · steadying · grounding

Family

discomfort, uncomfortable, confectionery, confection, disconcert, discomforts, discomfit, discomfiture, discomfited

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