get a grip

Control your emotions

Get a grip means to regain composure or control of oneself, often used as a command to someone who's being irrational, overly emotional, or losing perspective: Get a grip—it's just a job interview.

The phrase suggests grabbing hold of something slipping away, whether emotions, judgment, or a situation.

I need to get a grip on my finances.

composure

calm

Free from agitation

pull together · cool down · settle · breathe · relax · focus · center · patience · restraint · fortitude

control

handle

Part for gripping

  • manageDirect or handle successfully
  • graspSeize or understand
  • holdMaintain in grasp

secure · traction · purchase · leverage · clutch · clamp · seize · take hold · latch onto · grab

Categories
Opposites
emotional control

get a griplose it

Succumb to overwhelming emotion

freak out · lose control · fall apart · panic · have a meltdown

psychological stability

get a gripfall apart

Break into pieces

come undone · unravel · crumble · disintegrate · break down

behavioral advice

get a griplet it all out

Express suppressed emotions freely

let loose · let it rip · go wild

Family

get, grip, forget, getting, gripping, gets, gripped, grips, forgetting

Familiarity
Top 20,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G