counting one's blessings

Tallying good fortune

Counting one's blessings is the practice of reflecting on what you have to be grateful for, especially during difficult times.

The phrase suggests a deliberate mental inventory—tallying up good fortune rather than dwelling on misfortune: When I'm feeling sorry for myself, I try to count my blessings.

Often appears as advice or mild rebuke: You should count your blessings.

Related

stoicism · thankfulness · humility · self-reflection · journaling · joy · silver lining · looking on the bright side · glass half full · positive psychology · affirmations · optimism · good vibes · prayer · hopefulness · serenity · satisfaction · mindful breathing

Opposites
gratitude vs. complaint

counting one's blessingscomplaining

Expressing discontent verbally

griping · airing grievances · ingratitude · self-pity · grumbling

contentment vs. discontent

counting one's blessingsself-pity

Exaggerated focus on own suffering

brooding · sulking · moping · coveting · discontentment

optimistic vs. pessimistic focus

counting one's blessingscatastrophizing

Imagining worst-case outcomes

doom and gloom · worst-case thinking · defeatism · cynicism · playing the victim

Family

counting, counts, counted, counter, counters, recount, recounts, recounted, recounting

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G