count one's blessings

Recognize good fortune

To count one's blessings is to reflect on what's good in your life, especially when circumstances feel difficult.

The phrase typically appears as advice or self-encouragement to maintain perspective: I didn't get the promotion, but I'm counting my blessings—at least I still have a job.

It suggests gratitude as a deliberate practice rather than a spontaneous feeling.

Related

reframing · gratitude · give thanks · cherishing · hopefulness · silver lining · introspection · contentment · humble · thanksgiving · recognition · appreciation · gratefulness · self-awareness · indebtedness · acceptance · fortunate · good fortune

Opposites
attentional focus

count one's blessingscomplain

Express discontent verbally

grumble · brood · gripe · find fault · bellyache

emotional orientation

count one's blessingstake for granted

Assume without questioning

resent · begrudge · covet

Family

count, counts, counted, counting, counter, counters, recount, recounts, recounted

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G