competitive parenting

Keeping up parentally

Competitive parenting is treating child-rearing as a contest against other parents—measuring success through children's achievements, activities, and milestones relative to peers.

It manifests in overscheduling kids with enrichment activities, boasting about accomplishments, or anxiously comparing developmental timelines: The competitive parenting at that school is exhausting—everyone's kids have tutors and three extracurriculars by age six.

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comparison · bragging · tutoring · enrichment classes · gifted · rankings · soccer mom · pushy · achievement · extracurriculars · resume building · perfectionism · rivalry · grades · college admissions · ivy league · Pinterest · humble brag

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Opposites
parenting approach intensity

competitive parentingfree-range parenting

Child-rearing emphasizing independence

unschooling · gentle parenting · permissive parenting · hands-off parenting · neglectful parenting

parental ego involvement

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Child-rearing emphasizing independence

attachment parenting · unschooling · self-directed learning · benign neglect · helicopter parenting

social comparison orientation

competitive parentingmindful parenting

Aware approach to raising children

keeping up with the Joneses

Family

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