commiserator

One who consoles

A commiserator is someone who expresses sympathy or shares in another's sorrow.

The word carries a slightly formal or ironic tone—you might call someone your commiserator when they've listened to you complain: My coworker has become my chief commiserator during these budget cuts.

empathy

sympathizer

One who shares feelings

sensitivity · kindness · rapport · connection · caring · warmth · concern · attunement · perceptiveness · listener

consolation

comforter

Quilted bed covering

assuager · encourager · reassurer · solace · balm · relief · respite · heartsease · palliative · mourner

solidarity

ally

Supportive partner

companion · friend · partner · collaborator · helper · champion · defender · kindred spirit · lamenter · complainer

Opposites
emotional response to others' suffering

commiseratorgloater

One who revels smugly

mocker · cold fish · dismisser · stoic · ice queen

behavioral response to misfortune

commiseratortormentor

One who causes anguish

taunter · ridiculer · bully · exploiter · antagonist

Family

commiserate, commiseration, commiserating, commiserated, commiserative, commiserations, commiserates, commiserators

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