commiserate

Mourn with another

To commiserate is to express sympathy or sorrow for someone else's misfortune, often by sharing in their feelings: We commiserated over our failed exams.

The word implies mutual understanding—you don't just observe someone's trouble, you join them in it.

Commiseration suggests a bond formed through shared disappointment or hardship.

consolation

comfort

Ease or soothing relief

condolence · reassure · succor · balm · alleviate · ease · hearten · assuage · palliate · condole

grief

sorrow

Deep emotional distress

loss · bereavement · heartache · sadness · weep · tears · collective grief · memorial · remembrance · funeral

empathy

sympathize

Share another's feelings

identify · concern · caring · sensitivity · kindness · emotional support · connection · heartfelt · tender · vicarious

bonding

camaraderie

Goodwill among companions

connection · shared experience · mutual support · togetherness · brotherhood · sisterhood · unity · common ground · support group · collective struggle

expression

confide

Share private matters

  • sharePortion given out
  • ventOpening for airflow
  • talkVerbal exchange between people

unburden · open up · express · voice · communicate · discuss · articulate · pour out · spill · divulge

Opposites
emotional response to others' circumstances

commiseratecongratulate

Express joy at success

felicitate · toast · cheer · celebrate · applaud

degree of emotional engagement

commiserateignore

Refuse to notice

disregard · dismiss · shrug off · turn away · turn a blind eye

attitude toward sufferer

commiserategloat

Relish superiority smugly

scorn · mock · ridicule · deride · taunt

Family

commiseration, commiserating, commiserated, commiserative, commiserations, commiserates

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