cajolement

Coaxing with flattery

Cajolement is the act of coaxing or persuading someone through flattery, gentle urging, or persistent pleading.

It suggests a softer approach than demanding—wearing down resistance through charm rather than force: After much cajolement, she agreed to sing at the party.

The word carries a slightly manipulative undertone, implying the target needed convincing they wouldn't have given freely.

persuasion

coaxing

Persuading through gentle persistence

blandishment · entreaty · urging · inducement · convincing · beguiling · charming · winning over · soft-soaping · smooth-talking

deception

manipulation

Underhanded control of others

craftiness · insincerity · duplicity · scheming · wiles · trickery · honeyed words · ulterior motive · disingenuous · sycophancy

affection

cooing

Soft murmuring sounds

tenderness · doting · fondness · pampering · indulgence · spoiling · babying · fawning · adoration · soft words

Opposites
persuasion method

cajolementcoercion

Pressured compliance through threats

threat · intimidation · demand · compulsion · force

interpersonal tone

cajolementharshness

Unsparing quality or manner

severity · sternness · brusqueness · coldness · hostility

Family

cajole, cajoling, cajoled, cajoles, cajolery, cajoler, cajolers

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G