behind the back

Without one's knowledge

Behind the back describes actions done without someone's knowledge, typically involving deception or betrayal: They were talking about me behind my back.

The phrase suggests secrecy and often carries negative connotations—gossip, scheming, or underhanded deals.

In sports, behind the back refers to passes or dribbles executed with the hand reaching around one's own body: a flashy behind-the-back pass.

Opposites
directness of communication

behind the backface-to-face

Direct personal encounter

directly · in person · openly · in front of · head-on

honesty and transparency

behind the backtransparently

In an obvious manner

honestly · in the open · forthrightly · candidly · out in the open

social positioning

behind the backface-to-face

Direct personal encounter

head-on · eye to eye · confrontationally · man to man · straight up

Family

behind, back, backs, backed, backing, backer, backside, backmost, backward

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G