be left holding the baby

Stuck with consequences

To be left holding the baby is to be stuck with responsibility for something, especially after others have abandoned their share of the work or blame.

The phrase suggests being the last one standing when a problem needs handling, often unfairly.

When the project collapsed, the junior staff were left holding the baby while the executives moved on.

The variant *be left holding the bag* is more common in American English.

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left high and dry · left in the lurch · hung out to dry · take the fall · thrown under the bus · take the rap · bear the brunt · shirking · face the music · patsy · abdication · betrayal · duty · irresponsibility · abandonment · predicament · pick up the pieces · dumping

Opposites
responsibility transfer

be left holding the babypass the buck

Transfer responsibility elsewhere

wash one's hands of · palm off · off the hook · foist off · shift the blame

AGENCY AND CHOICE', where they are the same on the dimensions of 'AGENCY AND CHOICE

be left holding the babyvolunteer

Unpaid willing participant

take ownership

outcome status

be left holding the babyland on one's feet

Recover despite adversity

Family

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Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G