toughening up

Becoming more durable

Toughening up is becoming stronger, more resilient, or less sensitive—or making someone else that way.

The phrase often appears in advice about emotional hardening: You need to toughen up if you're going to survive in this business.

It can also refer to physical conditioning or making rules more stringent: The league is toughening up its penalties for fighting.

Related

fortify · robustness · inuring · sink or swim · thick skin · sucking it up · stiff upper lip · tenacity · acclimatization · determination · conditioning · grit · resolve · brace · no pain no gain · ruggedness · tempering · perseverance

Opposites
resilience development

toughening upsoftening

Becoming less firm

weakening · breaking down · coddling · babying · mollycoddling

treatment approach

toughening upcoddling

Overindulgent, protective treatment

babying · pampering · mollycoddling · spoiling · sheltering

Family

tough, toughen, toughened, toughens, toughening, tougher, toughest, toughly, toughness

Familiarity
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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G