building character

Forging inner strength

Building character is what difficult experiences supposedly do for a person—developing resilience, discipline, or moral strength through hardship.

The phrase often carries an ironic edge, acknowledging that the "character-building" experience is genuinely unpleasant: Running laps in the rain builds character.

Parents and coaches invoke it to justify ordeals that seem pointless to those enduring them.

Related

integrity · core values · communication · teamwork · focus · honesty · inner strength · fortitude · mental toughness · habit formation · courage · leadership · moral fiber · humility · grit · hardship · tough love · rising above

Opposites
developmental approach

building charactercoddling

Overindulgent, protective treatment

spoiling · overprotecting · pampering · enabling · mollycoddling

moral/ethical trajectory

building charactermoral decay

Decline in ethical standards

character assassination · debasement · demoralization · leading astray

personal growth orientation

building characterstagnation

Absence of flow or progress

self-indulgence · instant gratification · path of least resistance · learned helplessness · atrophy

Family

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Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G