throwing one's weight around

Abusing one's influence

Throwing one's weight around is using one's power, authority, or influence in an aggressive or heavy-handed way.

The image is of a large person physically imposing on others, extended to anyone leveraging their position to dominate: The new manager started throwing his weight around on day one.

Usually disparaging—it suggests bullying rather than legitimate leadership.

Related

throwing elbows · coercion · micromanaging · government authority · pulling rank · resentment · patronizing · arrogance · influence · insecurity · grandstanding · family dynamics · confrontation · posturing · manipulation · entitlement · enforcement · boasting

Opposites
interpersonal approach

throwing one's weight aroundpersuading

Inducing belief or action

leading by example · collaborating

use of power/status

throwing one's weight aroundkeeping a low profile

Avoiding notice deliberately

servant leadership · treading lightly · self-effacement · staying in one's lane · leading by example

behavioral disposition

throwing one's weight aroundgoing with the flow

Accepting situations without resistance

taking a back seat · shrinking violet · tiptoeing around · walking on eggshells

Family

throws, thrown, thrower, throwers, weight, weights, weighty, weightier, weightiest

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G