throw up one's hands

Give up entirely

To throw up one's hands is to abandon effort or give up in frustration, as if physically surrendering: I've tried explaining it three times—I throw up my hands.

The gesture signals exasperation or acceptance that a situation is beyond one's control.

She threw up her hands and let the kids eat ice cream for dinner.

surrender

give up

Stop attempting something

resign · quit · abandon · forfeit · admit defeat · wave the white flag · walk away · let go · accept · acquiesce

exasperation

frustration

Displeasure from blocked efforts

annoyed · aggravated · impatient · vexed · at wit's end · defeated · hopeless · overwhelmed · disheartened · discouraged

Opposites
persistence vs. surrender

throw up one's handspersevere

Continue despite obstacles

persist · soldier on · press on · keep trying · keep at it

emotional engagement vs. resignation

throw up one's handscommit

Bind to a course

give a damn · keep the faith

agency vs. helplessness

throw up one's handstake charge

Begin leading a situation

take the bull by the horns · seize control · take matters into one's own hands · roll up one's sleeves · get a grip

Family

throw, throws, thrown, throwing, thrower, ones, hand, hands, handed

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G