taking to heart

Letting it affect

Taking to heart means accepting something seriously and allowing it to affect you emotionally.

When you take criticism to heart, you don't dismiss it—you let it sink in and influence how you feel or act: She took his comments to heart and changed her approach.

The phrase often appears in advice not to do so: Don't take it to heart; he criticizes everyone.

Related

heeding · sincere apology · guilt · rumination · introspection · soul searching · self reflection · reaction · resolve · commitment · awareness · understanding · harsh criticism · sensitivity · compassion · sorrow · analysis · contemplation

Opposites
emotional receptivity

taking to heartbrushing off

Disregarding without consideration

shrugging off · dismissing · turning a deaf ear · ignoring · disregarding

seriousness of consideration

taking to heartlaughing off

Dismissing with humor

minimizing · pooh-poohing · discounting · blowing off · downplaying

Family

take, taking, taken, takes, taker, takers, heart, hearts, hearted

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G