sucker for punishment

Enjoys repeated suffering

Someone who repeatedly accepts or seeks out difficult, painful, or unpleasant experiences.

The phrase usually carries a note of self-awareness or affectionate teasing: I keep dating musicians—I'm a sucker for punishment.

It suggests the person knows better but persists anyway, whether from optimism, stubbornness, or masochistic tendencies.

Related

hard way · determined · stubborn · self-flagellation · endurance · trial · no pain no gain · relentless · compulsion · repeat offender · beating a dead horse · asking for it · asking for trouble · obstacle · persevering · difficulty · uphill battle · self-sacrificing

Opposites
self-preservation behavior

sucker for punishmentquitter

One who surrenders

fair-weather friend · path of least resistance · avoider · flight risk · cut and run

pain/discomfort tolerance

sucker for punishmentthin-skinned

Easily hurt by remarks

delicate · fragile · sensitive · soft · hothouse flower

self-protection orientation

sucker for punishmentlooks out for number one

Prioritizes personal gain above all

fair-weather friend · self-interested · quitter · avoider · knows better

Family

sucker, sucked, sucking, sucks, punishment, punish, punished, punishing, punishes

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