stick one's oar in

Offer unsolicited opinions

To stick one's oar in is to offer unwanted opinions or interfere in matters that don't concern you.

The image is of someone grabbing an oar on a boat already being rowed by others.

Chiefly British: Nobody asked for your advice—stop sticking your oar in.

Also *put one's oar in*.

Related

two cents · intervene · speak out of turn · disrupt · stir the pot · encroach · step on toes · pry · tamper · impose · overstepping · kibitz · busybody · mind your business · idiom · rowboat · interpersonal conflict · social norms

Opposites
interference vs. non-interference

stick one's oar inmind one's own business

Refrain from prying

butt out · leave well enough alone · let sleeping dogs lie · keep to oneself · hold one's tongue

active involvement vs. passive detachment

stick one's oar instand aside

Move out of path

step back · keep one's counsel · take a back seat · withdraw · disengage

communication style

stick one's oar inhold one's tongue

Deliberately not speak

keep quiet · bite one's tongue · keep mum · say nothing · zip one's lip

Family

stick, sticks, sticking, stuck, sticky, stickiness, sticker, ones, oarsman

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Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G