standing on ceremony

Insisting on etiquette

Standing on ceremony means insisting on formal behavior or proper etiquette, especially when it's unnecessary or unwelcome.

The phrase usually appears in the negative: No need to stand on ceremony—help yourself to whatever's in the fridge.

Someone who stands on ceremony prioritizes protocol over ease or warmth.

Related

stiff upper lip · bow · posture · white gloves · handshake · salute · protocol · by the book · self-consciousness · politeness · proper etiquette · deference · ritualism · propriety · curtsy · civility · punctiliousness · social graces

Opposites
formality of behavior

standing on ceremonyletting one's hair down

Releasing social inhibitions

relaxed · easygoing · laid-back · unceremonious · casual

authenticity vs. performance

standing on ceremonybeing oneself

Acting from true nature

keeping it real · down-to-earth · unaffected · getting down to business · no-nonsense

Family

stand, stands, standing, ceremony, ceremonies, ceremonial, ceremonially, ceremonious, ceremoniously

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Top 200,000
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G