spectre at the feast

Joy's dark shadow

A spectre at the feast is a person or thing that casts gloom over an otherwise joyful occasion.

The phrase evokes an unwelcome ghost appearing at a celebration, impossible to ignore.

Someone might be the spectre at the feast by raising uncomfortable truths or simply by their grim presence: He didn't want to be the spectre at the feast, but he couldn't pretend everything was fine.

Also spelled specter at the feast.

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phantom · memento mori · macabre · disruptor · spoiler · killjoy · presence · elephant in the room · naysayer · interloper · foreboding · dark cloud · sword of Damocles · haunt · death's head · Banquo · intruder · gloom

Opposites
social atmosphere effect

spectre at the feastlife of the party

Most entertaining guest

life and soul of the party · ray of sunshine · breath of fresh air · party animal · good-time Charlie

REMINDER OF MORTALITY/DARK TRUTHS vs. ESCAPISM

spectre at the feastrose-tinted glasses

Unrealistically positive perspective

blissful ignorance · comic relief · court jester · silver lining · Pollyanna

symbolic presence

spectre at the feastgood omen

Favorable sign of future

lucky charm · blessing in disguise · fairy godmother · guardian angel

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