sow wild oats

Live recklessly young

To sow wild oats is to indulge in youthful excess before settling down—typically involving casual sex, drinking, or general recklessness.

The phrase implies a phase that will pass: He spent his twenties sowing wild oats before getting married.

Usually said of young men, with a tone that's more indulgent than disapproving.

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life stage behavior

sow wild oatssettle down

Become calm or established

grow up · act one's age · mature · put down roots · toe the line

sexual/romantic conduct

sow wild oatscommit

Bind to a course

be faithful · marry · settle down · get married · tie the knot

moral restraint

sow wild oatskeep one's nose clean

Avoid misconduct or scandal

walk the straight and narrow · behave oneself · deny oneself

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG