social scripts

Interaction behavior guides

Social scripts are the unwritten rules and expected sequences of behavior for common situations—ordering at a restaurant, greeting a stranger, conducting a job interview.

People learn these patterns through observation and experience, following them largely without conscious thought.

Someone who doesn't know the social script for a situation may feel awkward or behave in ways others find odd: He didn't seem to know the social script for small talk.

The term comes from sociology and psychology, where it describes how social interactions follow predictable patterns like actors following a script.

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playing a part · rehearsed · expectations · greetings · how are you · nice to meet you · breaking the ice · rituals · autopilot · manners · small talk · polite · thank you note · awkward · unwritten · customs · performance · interaction

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