shame on me

My fault entirely

A self-directed expression of guilt or responsibility for a mistake or moral failing.

Often used when acknowledging one's own foolishness, especially after being deceived twice: Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.

The phrase accepts blame rather than deflecting it.

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fool me twice · blush · face palm · self-reproach · guilty conscience · mortification · public humiliation · blameworthiness · burn · contrition · culpability · slump · stupid · lesson learned · pity · regretfulness · mea culpa · remorse

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blame direction

shame on meshame on you

Spoken moral rebuke

not my fault · scapegoating

moral self-assessment

shame on mepat on the back

Gesture showing approval

no regrets

accountability stance

shame on mepassing the buck

Transferring responsibility to others

making excuses · playing the victim

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G