schmoosing

Chatting people up

Schmoosing is chatting in a friendly, often self-serving way—making small talk to build connections or curry favor.

The word carries a whiff of insincerity, suggesting conversation as social lubrication rather than genuine exchange: He spent the cocktail hour schmoosing with potential investors.

Also spelled schmoozing, from Yiddish.

socializing

chatting

Informal verbal exchange

conversation · shooting the breeze · chit-chat · kibitzing · hanging out · bonding · rapport · friendliness · warmth · gossiping

networking

mingling

Casual social interaction

cocktail party · conference · LinkedIn · introductions · handshakes · elevator pitch · power lunch · gatekeepers · influencers · career advancement

flattery

buttering up

Excessive flattery for advantage

ingratiating · sucking up · brownnosing · apple-polishing · fawning · currying favor · smooth-talking · persuasion · winning over · praise

Opposites
social authenticity

schmoosingtrue friendship

Authentic, lasting mutual affection

real talk

social engagement level

schmoosingwithdrawing

Removing or pulling away

avoiding · keeping to oneself · isolating · shunning · cold-shouldering

communication style

schmoosingtelling it like it is

Speaking plain, unfiltered truth

straight talk · cutting to the chase · confronting · criticizing · antagonizing

Family

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Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G