putting oneself out

Making personal sacrifices

Putting oneself out means going to trouble or inconvenience for someone else's benefit.

The phrase often appears in negative constructions suggesting reluctance or refusal to make an effort: Don't put yourself out on my account.

It can be sincere or sarcastic—the latter implying someone is being unhelpful: I wouldn't want you to put yourself out.

Related

charity · benevolence · listening · being there · obligation · understanding · volunteering · stepping up · giving · kindness · dedication · favor · compassion · supportiveness · bending over backwards · self-sacrifice · conscientiousness · compromise

Opposites
personal comfort and convenience

putting oneself outtaking it easy

Deliberately slowing down

coasting · relaxing · self-preservation · staying put · lounging

effort and exertion for others

putting oneself outstanding by

Ready to act

doing nothing · sitting on one's hands

effort and exertion

putting oneself outdoing nothing

Absence of activity

sitting back · slacking · inactivity · inertia

Family

putter, putting, oneself, himself, herself, itself, themselves, myself, yourself

Familiarity
Top 500,000
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G