putting one's foot in it

Tactless verbal misstep

To put one’s foot in it means to unintentionally say or do something embarrassing, tactless, or offensive, often revealing ignorance or insensitivity.

The phrase originated in British English and evokes the image of stepping into something unpleasant, like mud or dung.

It is commonly used to describe social blunders or faux pas, such as revealing a secret or making an inappropriate comment.

He really put his foot in it when he asked her about her ex-husband at the wedding.

Related

blunder · slip-up · Freudian slip · gaffe · verbal gaffe · embarrassment · awkward moment · malapropism · shame · misunderstanding · clarification · tactlessness · redirection · regret · humor · misstep · indiscretion · acknowledgment

Opposites
social tact

putting one's foot in ittact

Sensitivity in speech

diplomacy · tactfulness · discretion · delicacy · finesse

intentionality of offense

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Backward-pointing spike

cutting remark

communicative success

putting one's foot in ithitting the mark

Achieving intended result

reading the room · nailing it · smooth sailing

Family

putting, footed, footer, footers, footing, footings, footstep, footsteps, footprint

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G