punking out

Losing your nerve

Punking out is backing down from a challenge or commitment out of fear or weakness.

Someone who punks out loses nerve at the crucial moment: He was going to ask her out but punked out at the last second.

The phrase implies cowardice or lack of resolve, suggesting the person failed to live up to expectations—their own or others'.

Related

losing nerve · withdrawing · bailing · running scared · evading · shirking · folding · abandoning · throwing in the towel · freezing up · dodging · backing down · backing off · avoidance · hesitation · reluctance · losing heart · insecurity

Opposites
courage and follow-through

punking outstepping up

Assuming more responsibility

following through · manning up · facing the music · rising to the occasion · biting the bullet

social standing and respect

punking outrepresenting

Acting as proxy for

coming through · standing tall · keeping it real · saving face

Family

punk, punks, punked, punking, punkish, out, outs, outed, outing

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Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG