getting cold feet

Losing one's nerve

Getting cold feet is losing nerve or confidence just before committing to something—a wedding, a business deal, a major decision.

The phrase implies last-minute hesitation after having already agreed or planned to proceed: She was getting cold feet about the move to Chicago.

Someone who gets cold feet may back out entirely or need reassurance to continue.

Related

losing nerve · anxiety · pause · self-sabotage · backing out · backtracking · runaway bride · second thoughts · reluctance · chicken out · avoidance behavior · trepidation · scared · risk aversion · indecision · catastrophizing · intimidated · apprehension

Opposites
commitment and follow-through

getting cold feetfollowing through

Completing what was started

taking the plunge · going for it · holding firm · going all in · standing one's ground

emotional state toward action

getting cold feetchomping at the bit

Eager and impatient

raring to go

Family

gotten, cold, colder, coldest, coldly, coldness, feet, footing

Familiarity
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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G