pulling one's own weight

Carrying fair load

Pulling one's own weight means contributing fairly to a shared effort—doing your part rather than relying on others to compensate for you.

The image comes from draft animals: each must pull equally for the load to move efficiently.

She accused her roommate of not pulling his own weight with the chores.

Often appears as pull your weight or carry your own weight.

Related

fairness · diligence · mutual support · collaboration · self-reliance · initiative · reliability · skin in the game · teamwork · team player · contribution · carrying the load · duty · independence · integrity · obligation · self-sufficiency · shared goals

Opposites
contribution vs. burden

pulling one's own weightfreeloading

Exploiting others' generosity

free riding · slacking off · coasting · mooching · sponging

Family

pulls, pulled, puller, pulling, owners, ownership, disown, disowned, weight

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G