prim and proper

Excessively correct behavior

Prim and proper describes someone excessively formal, stiff, or concerned with propriety and decorum.

The phrase is mildly redundant—both words suggest careful correctness—but the pairing emphasizes the quality.

Often used with gentle mockery: She's too prim and proper to laugh at dirty jokes.

He sat prim and proper at the head of the table.

Related

old maid · stuffy · staid · starched · stiff upper lip · stickler · Victorian · demure · strait-laced · reserved · finishing school · buttoned-up · bluenosed · etiquette · good manners · genteel · high society · fastidious

Categories
Opposites
formality and demeanor

prim and propercasual

Relaxed and informal

relaxed · laid-back · easygoing · informal · slovenly

moral propriety and decorum

prim and properimproper

Lacking in propriety

wild · uninhibited · indecent · vulgar · crude

spontaneity and expressiveness

prim and properuninhibited

Free from self-censorship

free-spirited · wild · unrestrained · carefree · impulsive

Family

proper, prime, property, primary, appropriate, primitive, primer, propriety, primed

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G