point the finger

Single someone out

To point the finger is to assign blame or accusation, usually at a specific person: Everyone pointed the finger at the new guy.

The phrase evokes the physical gesture of singling someone out.

It often implies the accusation may be unfair or deflecting responsibility: Before you point the finger at others, look at yourself.

Related

lay blame · incriminate · accountability · hold accountable · scapegoating · shift the blame · implicate · guilt · shame · gesture · nonverbal cues · responsibility · insinuation · anger · signal · defensiveness · indict · censure

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Opposites
blame vs. defense

point the fingerdefend

Protect from harm

exonerate · stick up for · absolve · cover for · vindicate

accusation vs. acceptance of responsibility

point the fingertake the blame

own up · take responsibility · fall on one's sword · mea culpa · take the fall

condemnation vs. forgiveness

point the fingerforgive

Cease to blame

pardon · let it go · turn the other cheek · show mercy · overlook

Family

point, finger, points, pointed, pointing, pointer, pointers, pointy, pointless

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G