playing the game

Going along strategically

Playing the game means following unwritten rules and social conventions to succeed or get along, especially when those rules involve compromise or strategic behavior.

Someone who plays the game knows how things really work and acts accordingly, whether in office politics, dating, or any arena with informal codes: You have to play the game if you want that promotion.

The phrase often carries a note of cynicism—playing the game may mean sacrificing authenticity for advantage.

Related

alliances · ambition · protocol · hierarchy · going along to get along · social climbing · brown nosing · networking · unwritten rules · influence · reputation · diplomacy · rules · strategy · participation · gamesmanship · power moves · rivalry

Opposites
conformity vs. rebellion

playing the gamerebelling

Resisting established authority

rocking the boat · bucking the system · breaking the rules · making waves · dissenting

leisure vs. labor

playing the gameworking

In active function

toiling · laboring · work · job · career

strategic engagement vs. authentic expression

playing the gamekeeping it real

Maintaining genuine behavior

speaking one's mind · wearing one's heart on one's sleeve · telling it like it is · idealism

Family

play, game, plays, played, player, players, playing, playful, playfully

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G