play at

Do without commitment

To play at something is to engage in it without full commitment or seriousness—pretending rather than truly doing: He's just playing at being a writer.

The phrase often carries dismissiveness, suggesting someone lacks the dedication to be the real thing: Stop playing at romance and actually commit.

Children play at adult roles; adults who play at things are accused of dilettantism.

pretend

make-believe

Imaginative play or fantasy

imagination · acting · charades · masquerade · pretense · dabble · toy with · tinker · trifle with · experiment

Opposites
commitment and seriousness

play attake seriously

Treat as significant

throw oneself into · work at · master · professionalize · make a career of

authenticity of identity or role

play atembody

Express through physical form

become · own · internalize

professional versus amateur engagement

play atmaster

Authority or controller

professionalize · make a career of

Family

play, at

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G