pity party

Self-sorrow indulgence

A pity party is a bout of self-indulgent wallowing in one's own misfortune, often with exaggerated grievances: Stop throwing yourself a pity party and do something about it.

The term is almost always dismissive, used to criticize someone for seeking sympathy rather than solutions.

One can throw, have, or host a pity party—usually a party of one.

Related

sad sack · sobbing · crying jag · boo hoo · crocodile tears · dramatizing · throw a fit · sigh · attention-seeking · melodrama · miserable · complaining · gloom · frown · waterworks · navel-gazing · venting · blanket

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Opposites
emotional orientation

pity partygratitude

Thankfulness for kindness received

positive attitude · optimism · celebration · appreciation · looking on the bright side

response to hardship

pity partyresilience

Capacity to recover quickly

bouncing back · moving on · grit · perseverance · stiff upper lip

social celebration type

pity partycelebration

Festive event marking occasion

victory party · jubilee · festivity · triumph · congratulations

Family

party, pity, pitiful, partying, pitiless, parties, partied, pities, pitied

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G