nebbishes

Meek, ineffectual people

Nebbishes are timid, ineffectual people—the plural of nebbish.

From Yiddish, the word describes someone meek and easily overlooked, lacking assertiveness or social presence: The party was full of nebbishes standing awkwardly by the punch bowl.

The term carries affectionate condescension—pitiable rather than contemptible.

literary

Woody Allen

George Costanza · self-deprecating · kvetch · Yiddish · shtetl · Jewish humor · Larry David · schlimazel · bumbling · nebbishy

personality

timid

Lacking courage or confidence

passive · wishy-washy · pushover · doormat · milquetoast · weak-willed · submissive · ineffectual · mousy · diffident

social

wallflower

Shy person avoiding socializing

underdog · outcast · misfit · sad sack · hapless · schlub · zero · insignificant · overlooked · invisible

Opposites
assertiveness and social confidence

nebbishesalphas

First Greek letters

alpha males · go-getters · movers and shakers · dynamos · firebrands

personal effectiveness and agency

nebbishesachievers

Those who accomplish goals

winners · hotshots · whiz kids · high achievers · powerhouses

social status and impressiveness

nebbishesbig shots

Influential, powerful people

VIPs · somebodies · heavyweights · luminaries · titans

Family

nebbish

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Profile
Timeless · Concrete · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G