make a spectacle of oneself

Draw unwanted attention

To make a spectacle of oneself is to behave in a way that draws embarrassing public attention—acting foolishly, dramatically, or inappropriately so that others stop and stare.

The phrase carries disapproval, suggesting the person has become an unwilling or oblivious spectacle for onlookers: She drank too much at the wedding and made a spectacle of herself on the dance floor.

Related

embarrassment · humiliation · grandstand · over the top · behavior · fool · exhibitionist · faux pas · cringe · make a show of oneself · scene stealer · mockery · mortification · make a fool of · shame · dramatizing · exaggerating · regret

Opposites
social visibility and attention

make a spectacle of oneselfblend in

Become part of surroundings

keep a low profile · fly under the radar · keep one's head down · lie low · lay low

self-control and restraint

make a spectacle of oneselfkeep one's cool

Maintain emotional control

contain oneself · keep it together

self-presentation/impression management

make a spectacle of oneselfsave face

Protect one's reputation

keep up appearances

Family

spectacle, spectator, spectacular, spectators, spectacles, spectacularly

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G