m'lady

Ironic courtly address

M'lady is a contraction of "my lady," originally a respectful form of address for noblewomen.

Today it survives mainly as internet mockery of socially awkward men who affect exaggerated chivalry toward women, often while wearing fedoras: He tipped his hat and said "m'lady" without irony.

The cringe lies in the mismatch between medieval courtesy and modern context.

ironic

fedora

Soft creased felt hat

meme · tipping · gentleman · nice guy · white knight · Reddit · 4chan · basement · katana · trenchcoat

archaic

mistress

Illicit female lover

courtly · aristocrat · gentlewoman · nobility · address · salutation · deference · respect · servant · handmaiden

courtship

gallant

Courageously attentive and refined

flattery · wooing · bow · curtsy · hand-kiss · devotion · adoration · romantic · chivalrous · deferential

Opposites
formality/register

m'ladybro

Slang for male friend

dude · hey you · yo · mate · sis

gender of address

m'ladym'lord

Deferential aristocratic address

sir · milord · gentleman · sire

Family

lady, my, ma'am, madam, madame, milady, miladies

Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Everyday, not technical · Rated G