lost one's virginity

Initial sexual experience

To lose one's virginity is to have sexual intercourse for the first time.

The expression treats virginity as something possessed and then surrendered or given away: She lost her virginity at sixteen.

The passive construction lost rather than an active verb reflects cultural ambivalence about first sexual experiences—something that happens to a person rather than something they do.

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innocence · awakening · sexual intercourse · chastity · empowerment · intimacy · stigma · coming-of-age · regret · walk of shame · one night stand · liberation · taboo · abstinence · first love · high school sweetheart · promiscuity · vulnerability

Opposites
sexual experience status

lost one's virginityabstained

Voluntarily held back

untouched · maiden · virginal

direction of sexual state change

lost one's virginityborn-again virgin

One reclaiming premarital purity

Family

loses, losing, loser, losers, losses, oneself, virgin, virginity, virginal

Familiarity
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