loosen someone's tongue

Make them talk

To loosen someone's tongue is to get them talking, especially about things they might normally keep private.

Alcohol loosens tongues at parties.

So does flattery, trust, or the right question at the right moment: A few drinks loosened his tongue and he told me everything.

Related
  • coaxingPersuading through gentle persistence
  • good cop bad copAlternating hostile and sympathetic interrogators
  • guiltMoral self-reproach
  • trustConfidence in another
  • fearEmotional response to threat

persuasion · active listening · heart to heart · open up · curiosity · anger · whistleblowing · flattery · empathy · excitement · sedatives · gossip · spill the beans · drugs · intoxication · liquid courage · in vino veritas · under the influence

Opposites
inducing speech vs. suppressing speech

loosen someone's tonguesilence

Total lack of sound

muzzle · gag · hush · shush · quiet

promoting openness vs. enforcing secrecy

loosen someone's tonguehush up

Suppress information deliberately

cover up · put a lid on · keep mum · clamp down on · close ranks

extracting information vs. protecting information

loosen someone's tonguebutton one's lip

Remain deliberately silent

clam up · stonewall · keep quiet · play dumb · plead the fifth

Family

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