kissing ass

Sucking up shamelessly

Kissing ass is flattering or deferring to someone in authority to gain favor—behaving obsequiously rather than honestly.

The image is of degrading submission.

He got promoted by kissing ass, not by working hard.

The noun form is ass-kisser; the adjective is ass-kissing.

Brown-nosing is a slightly milder synonym.

Related

brown-nosing · brown noser · servile · obsequious · kowtowing · toady · apple-polishing · crawling · sucking up · currying favor · groveling · adulate · extol · praise · laud · lackey · yes-man · fawner

Opposites
social deference and flattery

kissing assdefiance

Open resistance to authority

insubordination · rebellion · standing up to · talking back · disrespect

authenticity of respect

kissing assstraight talk

Honest, direct communication

candor · plain dealing

interpersonal deference behavior

kissing assdefiance

Open resistance to authority

insubordination · talking back · standing up to · rebelling · disrespecting

Family

kiss, kissed, kisses, kisser, kissers, ass, asses, assed

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG-13