talking back

Challenging an authority

Talking back is responding to an authority figure—parent, teacher, boss—in a way that challenges or defies them.

The term frames the response as disrespectful rather than legitimate disagreement: Don't you talk back to me!

What counts as talking back depends on the speaker's power; the phrase is rarely applied upward.

defiance

backtalk

Insolent verbal response

disrespect · impudence · cheek · insolence · impertinence · mouthiness · sauciness · lip · attitude · noncompliance

confrontation

retort

Quick, cutting reply

counterargument · riposte · argument · dispute · disagreement · challenge · objection · quarrel · clash · conflict

youth

smart-aleck

Obnoxiously clever person

lippy · fresh · smart-mouthed · wise guy · brat · precocious · cheeky · snippy · flippant · snarky

assertiveness

self-expression

Conveying one's inner world

empowerment · directness · candor · forthrightness · self-advocacy · confidence · boldness · outspokenness · firmness · articulation

Categories
Opposites
verbal compliance vs. defiance

talking backobeying

Following directives given

complying · submitting · acquiescing · deferring · agreeing

silence vs. vocalization

talking backkeeping quiet

Remaining silent

saying nothing · shutting up · keeping mum · not responding · holding one's peace

attentiveness vs. dismissiveness

talking backlistening

Attending to sound

paying attention · heeding · taking heed · absorbing

Family

back, talk, backing, talks, talking, speaking, talkative, backed, talker

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G