kissing up

Seeking favor obsequiously

Kissing up is behaving obsequiously toward someone in a position of power or authority, typically to gain favor or advantage.

The image is of literally kissing someone's body in submission.

He's always kissing up to the boss.

Related expressions include *kiss-ass* and *kiss up to*.

Related

praise · ego stroking · ingratiation · sycophancy · brown-nosing · brown noser · obsequiousness · kowtowing · kissing the ring · subservience · bootlicking · servility · yes-man · ass-kissing · sucking up · suck up · social climbing · climbing the ladder

Categories
Opposites
social behavior toward authority

kissing upstanding up to

Opposing despite intimidation

defying · confronting · talking back · insubordination · defiance

social self-positioning

kissing upself-respect

Valuing one's own worth

independence · punching up

social hierarchy orientation

kissing uppunching down

Mocking those beneath you

lording over · condescending

Family

kiss, kissed, kisses, kisser, kissers, upping

Familiarity
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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G